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Friday, 17 April 2015

No need to NAME it!!!

A few things in life don't come with a name..nothing to put in brackets...nothing explicit about them..sometimes you can't even pick a word from the huge Oxford Dictionary to describe it..strange right?!! But does it ever strike to us that these very few off-beat things, rather, relationships are the most beautiful and enjoyable relations in our life...They often come uninvited, and without even knocking the door of mind, heart & soul just enters..No name, no promises, no demands..they would just exist silently..they do all those things which seem to have opened doors for a new world...a new life..a new beginning...but are they permanent in life??? Are they real?? or we just try to think they are real where as they have just created a "temporary feel good wala virtual world" for you?..They don't come with responsibilities...they are free spirits around you which slowly makes you feel weak in your knees..and just waits for the moment your life becomes indispensable without them, "the famous can't do without you type feeling", when they finally calls it off!!! ???? WHY is it like that? is it all in our mind? Or they also want to be permanent residents but somehow the situation doesn't conform to it...
Let's not make it complicated further..Lets not think so much guys..Let's just flow with life..Let's heartily accept them so that they themselves will never feel like leaving..Lets enjoy the celebration called life...So why name them ourselves..Let's see how life names them...
Murphy's law need not to be validated everywhere..not every time...
CHEERS to them!!!!  

Wednesday, 15 April 2015

Expectations!!!!Killers are they??!!

Try guessing your biggest enemy!!! Name a few (or many, depends on how bad you have been)..Is it someone who stole your first crush? A "once upon a time" friend who did some back stabbing and created a huge distance...or a classmate who somehow unfortunately managed to score more than you and pushed you down in the number game, or snatched away the prestigious glory  of being numero uno iat your workplace..and bla bla bla...But no..these are much trivial than the actual culprit...who again hides perfectly to be free of all accusations but peeps in every now and then...it is synonymous with our very existence..It is the "just can't help it wala feeling" of ours that is the sole enemey of our lives..the sole reason for all that complicates human minds and thus lives...The great "EXPECTATION" ...Yes, a deep thought, on the couch, with a jumbo mug of coffee and a pinch of loneliness would make you realize this agony...It is this expectation which comes into any relationship that you possess, unknowingly.. While you think that things are all going fine & let things flow without any constraints, the biggest constraint ever, expectations, have already obtained its foothold in the mind and growing faster than you can think of...Either you are happy (expectations met) or you are damn hurt (expectations not met)!!! Some people do understand our expectations and some are not even aware of them....and the story continues for every little relation we hold close to our heart!!!
Just give a thought!!! We are all in a rat race 24*7 in our individual domains..but this deserves a thought.. May be you will understand many things better which you ignored in the past...May be you reunite with people you got rid of for some silly reason...This deserves a thought..
Concluding I would just like to say that if any person can eliminate all expectations from someone, he deserves the prize of highest honor across the globe....


Tuesday, 14 April 2015

A sudden Feeling!!! Keeps coming & Going!!!!

What if on a random morning you have a feeling that you are not being yourself???!!!! You are in a cocoon which is invisible to every damn person except you...Rather you were ignorant towards it too...It is only this morning that you realized that there is another "you"..somebody who used to exist long back openly but now is just a silent resident in your subconscious mind...somebody who used to be a free spirit, not bound by anything in this world but just by herself..somebody remotely connected to you...who doesn't show up so easily but when it does it just shakes you and your world..
It brings with it memories lost long back, a judgement about the present...and puts a huge question mark on your "till now most probable and well planned " future...What about that?? How will you deal with it..? Confusion is what it creates and turbulence is what it adds to mind...
Feelings are feelings yaar!!! The most involuntary characteristic of human emotions...That's what it is..nothing to be blamed and no one to be blamed for..If this day passes by then again tomorrow is a new day..rather a new morning carrying signature of the same regular life..waiting for yet another day with a new realization...